Beyond the Blame Game

I've been having a tough couple of days and feeling a little (or a lot) bummed out. This morning I was reading and came across this passage and the words where direct enough to shift my mind out of the fog that it has been in.

“All blame is a waste of time. No matter how much fault you find with another, and regardless of how much you blame him, it will not change you. The only thing blame does is to keep the focus off you when you are looking for external reasons to explain your unhappiness or frustration. You may succeed in making another feel guilty about something by blaming him, but you won't succeed in changing whatever it is about you that is making you unhappy.”

Wayne W. Dyer PhD.